If feel low in life then either surrender or end the life.A great spoken proverb " Without Bamboo Fluet Can Never Be Played".Yes I am talking about increasing rate of suicide among adolescents.If we read news paper and watch news channels then we can be aware about such cases. Students kills themself only on little failure.Perhaps they feel that opportunity is ended. .It seems it has became tradition.And tradition has no logic.
But most important point is that why is it so:-
- Parents and teachers are pressurising
- The main point is their age
Yes if we consider the age of students they are between twelve and nineteen.The different Psychologist has given their views : "Identity vs role confusion".It means that upto this age we are confused about our identity and role.who am I? Why I am here?etc It confuse our mind and if we do not get answer then we may take step to wrong path.Other one said " Adolescence is the age of Stress and Storm".Stress is negative mental state which may lead us to storm.Even on small failure.we know that there is no face and direction of Storm.It may disturbe us to any extent.Some time to kill self or someone else.
A great philosopher said that:- " If there is a problem there is solution too".
Parents should pamper their child but do not make sick of your.Some parent are always anxious about their child and if he get hurt a little bit too that becomes very sad .
Let them fight their situation by themselves.Because ultimately they have to fight themselves.
Never try to make your child as you wanted to be.
Yes comparison with other is also very harmful.It make the child guilty that other can do.But I am unable.
Consider the example of those who are physically challenged but achieved the biggest goal.
To achieve the goal one is not needed to be physically and mentally strong but will power may lead you to achieve the goal.
Mentally average students can reach the top with lots of practice and always learning will.
The teacher should always motivate not demoralised.Becuse it will not only work for your child but also make your image of best teacher infront of student.